Well, if he is a... roue, should I still go out with him?

如果他就是个 ，我该跟他约会吗？

And she had also been abandoned by an older roue husband as a young woman, who left her high and dry with a young son.

年轻时也曾被一位年长的夫抛弃，留下和一个年幼的儿子陷入困境。